Just Asking with Peter Banzon Have you heard of the statement” It’s a claim that a mother is of more value or importance than a spouse. It is a statement I disagree with but it raises an important question. Is it possible to side with my spouse without dishonoring my mother? How? Many conflicts arise when there is a misunderstanding concerning the roles that a mother and your spouse plays in your ...[Read More]
Ang asawa, pwedeng palitan, pero ang nanay, hindi?
I easily get offended by what my friends say
with Peter Banzon Q: My friends think I’m cool, but the truth is I easily get offended by what they might do or say. How do I deal with this feeling? A: Being easily offended is a difficult problem. You may be overly sensitive and regard many things as offensive. When people offend you and it remains unresolved, each new offense digs deeper into your soul and may make you bitter. Bitterness is ...[Read More]
When Friends Are Not Forever: Quitting a Toxic Friendship
People form relationships in the hopes that they will be mutually beneficial to both parties, each side giving and receiving in turn. However, some friends turn out to be emotional vampires, ever receiving, but never giving. You end up feeling drained and empty. Even worse, your self-esteem can take a serious hit, making you wonder whether you deserve the same love and treatment that you give thes ...[Read More]
How can I restore my relationship with my children?
I always compared my children to others and never appreciated their good deeds. So, our relationship has grown cold.
My husband and his brother are not on speaking terms
“My husband, my children and myself are not on speaking terms with my brother because he was mad at us when we moved out of the family compound. I feel awkward about meeting him at our reunion this Christmas, but I know my mother will be glad to see us together again. What should I do?” For the Filipino, nothing is as comforting as having the family living together in one location, one house, or o ...[Read More]